When Sons Become Husbands: A Desi Dilemma
In Pakistani society, household relationship dynamics often reflect deep-rooted cultural and traditional values. One of the most profound and intricate relationships is that between a mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law. While the nature of this relationship can be nurturing and supportive, there is a prevalent and disturbing trend where desi mothers view their sons as investments and emotional replacements for their husbands, leading to toxic behaviour towards their daughters-in-law. This article delves into the various facets of this complex issue, exploring its cultural, psychological, and social dimensions. Cultural Background and Expectations Traditional Gender Roles In Pakistani culture, traditional gender roles are deeply ingrained. Men are often seen as the primary breadwinners, while women are expected to take on the role of homemakers. This division of responsibilities places a significant amount of pressure on men to be financially successful and on women to manage the ho